Build your prompt-profile
Pick three prompts from our weekly list and answer them your way. That's your profile — no essay required, just enough for someone to have something to say.
Conversation-first dating
Skip the awkward opener.
Skip the awkward opener.
Just say hey.
SexHey pairs every profile with a fun conversation prompt, so you always know exactly what to say. No empty "hey," no endless swiping — just real conversations with real, photo-verified people.
Photo-verified profiles. Free to join, no card required.
Today's prompt match
Priya, 27
Hiking
Coffee
Live music
Dogs
Shared interests
89%
Similar humor
76%
Communication style
94%
Values & goals
68%
2.4M+
people actively using SexHey every month
18M+
matches made since we launched
9 min
average time to a first reply
96%
of active profiles are photo-verified
What's inside
Four small things that make the first message easy.
Prompt-based profiles
A profile that already broke the ice.
Instead of a blank bio, you answer a few fun prompts. Matches see your personality on the very first screen — something real to reply to, not just a photo to judge.
- Choose 3 prompts from a list that changes every week
- Swap any answer any time — no need to start over
- Prompts show up before photos in every preview
Icebreaker flow
Your first message, basically written for you.
Reply to their prompt answer instead of staring at a blank box. We'll even suggest a few openers if you want a nudge — you can always make it your own.
- Reply directly to a prompt answer with one tap
- Optional opener suggestions if you're stuck
- Read receipts are optional — no pressure to reply fast
Photo verification
Every profile, a real person.
A quick selfie check confirms the person behind the profile matches their photos. Our safety team reviews anything unclear by hand, and verified profiles get a badge everyone can see.
- Selfie check required before your profile goes live
- Flagged photos reviewed by a real person, not just software
- A visible badge so matches know you're really you
Prompt likes
See who already likes your answers.
Every like on your prompts shows up in one place, so you know exactly who's interested before you say hey back. On Plus, you can see everyone right away.
- A running list of everyone who liked a prompt answer
- See your most-liked prompt across your whole profile
- Plus members see every like the moment it happens
Getting started
Three taps to your next good conversation.
Get a daily set of matches
Every day we hand you a small, curated set of people nearby who are into similar things — instead of hundreds of strangers to swipe through.
Reply to an icebreaker
Your match already read your prompt answer. Reply to that instead of a blank chat box, and see where the conversation goes.
Safety & trust
Built so you can actually relax.
We treat safety as the whole point, not an afterthought. Every profile is checked, every report goes to a real person, and you're always in control of what you share and with whom.
Photo verification
Every profile completes a quick photo check before it can start matching, so the person you're talking to is who they say they are.
Reporting & blocking, built in
Flag a message or a profile in two taps. Blocking is instant, and the other person is never notified.
Your number stays yours
Chat in the app for as long as you like. We never share or suggest phone numbers until you decide to share yours.
A real moderation team
Reports are reviewed by real people, not just filters, and we act quickly on anything that breaks our community guidelines.
Pricing
Free to join. Upgrade only if you want to.
Every safety feature and unlimited messaging come standard, on every plan, always.
Hey
Free
For getting started. Everything you need for real conversations, on us.
- One curated set of matches, every day
- 3 active profile prompts
- Unlimited messaging with your matches
- Full safety toolkit: verification, blocking & reporting
Most chosen
Plus
$12.99 / month
For people who don't want to wait. Everything in Hey, with more control over who you see and who sees you.
- Everything in Hey
- See everyone who's liked your prompts
- Unlimited daily matches, no waiting for the next batch
- 5 extra prompts to show more of your personality
Plus is billed monthly at $12.99, or $79.99 billed annually (about $6.67/mo). Cancel anytime from your account settings — no phone call required.
I'd basically given up on dating apps until a friend sent me a prompt from her SexHey profile. My first message to my now-boyfriend was just replying to his "most useless talent" prompt — we haven't stopped talking since.
Renee Castillo
Graphic designer · Denver, CO · matched in March 2025
FAQ
Still weighing it up?
We built SexHey because the hardest part of dating apps was always the first message. If something's unclear, our team is happy to walk you through it.
Join freeHow does matching actually work?
Every day we put together a small, curated set of people near you based on your prompts, interests, and preferences. Reply to a prompt answer you like, and if they reply back, you're off — no swiping through hundreds of profiles required.
How does photo verification work?
When you sign up, we ask for a quick selfie and run an automated check against your profile photos, with a real person reviewing anything unclear. Verified profiles get a badge so matches know you're really you.
Is SexHey free to use?
Yes. The free Hey plan includes daily matches, unlimited messaging, and every safety feature. Plus adds unlimited daily matches and lets you see who's already liked your prompts, starting at $12.99 a month.
How do I delete my account and data?
Go to Settings → Account → Delete Account at any time. Your profile disappears immediately, and we permanently delete your personal data within 30 days, in line with our privacy policy.
What happens when I report someone?
Reports go straight to our human moderation team, who review the conversation and profile in question, usually within 24 hours. Accounts that break our community guidelines are warned, suspended, or permanently removed.